I have been road cycling for 13 years now. It has been an incredible journey. My bike has literally changed my life.
Before I met my bike (my beloved Trek 2000), I was the most unathletic person ever!!! I wouldn’t have believed for a second that I was one day going to be riding a fast bike on highways and up to the tops of mountains. I was completely uncomfortable with my physical being, and afraid of adventure.
Right after I married my husband, James, he bought us road bikes. It had been a passion of his in his younger years, and he was keen to re-immerse himself. I really had absolutely no idea what I was getting into.
The first time I took my road bike out, it was terrifying. You have to believe me when I say that I had no athletic abilities. My sense of my body was non-existent. I didn’t know how to co-ordinate anything. My new road bike had pedals with special shoes that clip into them. This presented a big challenge for me. I kept forgetting that my feet were attached!! I would come to a halt and rapidly hit the pavement before I remembered. I felt like a complete ass. I felt really incapable.
This was really embarrassing and really frustrating for me. I wanted to be able to do this! So, I ended up coming up with a strategy. I would repeat the words in my head anytime I wanted to stop: (1) Slow down, (2) release one foot, (3) halt and lower foot to ground, (4) lean on foot.
I really did this. I repeated this over and over and kept practicing on one quiet street near home until I got it.
If you want to ride a fast bike but you are afraid, I really encourage you to try this. Take the bike on a quiet street, and simply go up and down. Either use the steps that I have mentioned, or create your own. Don’t give up.
If there is something else you want to do that you are afraid of doing, apply a similar strategy. Bite off a small piece, and figure out a way to do it.
I went from a quite street to the peak of a famous European mountain within months. Don’t give up on yourself. You can do this!!!
The expert in anything was once a beginner.
{All photos by Christopher Aune}
How true – we all start off beginners in everything we do – even those things we now think of as second nature. Nice post 🙂 P.S. Don’t feel bad – I still fall off my bike sometimes 😉
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As always, thanks for reading 🙂 It is wonderful to be so supported 🙂
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I really love this post! Before I met my husband, I didn’t even know what a road bike was (I’ve always owned an inexpensive mountain bike). We plan to buy a pair of road bikes and get going!
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How exciting!!! I totally encourage you to embrace this challenging activity! All the best 🙂
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So good to read this; I’d have been very afraid of fast bikes; great motivation in your post.
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Thanks so much for reading!!! I was terrified. But now, I love being on my bike. I would love to see more women out there riding 🙂
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You have done an amazing job Julie & look at all the incredible things you have accomplished & the places you’ve ridden. You’re a real pocket rocket & I admire you so much. You have great determination & a loving, patient husband who encourages you all the way. You go girl!!
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WOW! Thank you so much for reading, and thank you so much for the lovely comment!!! This is an amazing message, and reflects to me that I am creating the right content 🙂 Thank you so much!
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Great post — this was exactly how I felt about motorcycle/dirt bike riding when I first started. I was so scared that I’d literally sit on the bike, engine idling, doing nothing but panicking for twenty minutes at a time. Then I’d shift into first (after like an hour), go ten feet, and then I’d put it away and be done. It took forever for me to push myself — and like you, I repeated something in my head to help calm myself and work up courage. Learning something new can be really terrifying!
Thanks so much for sharing 🙂
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